X Appeal

 This is the August post;

The other day I noticed that a message was addressed to me as Mx. Decker. I assumed it was because the sender couldn’t decide whether I was a Miss or a Mrs. I thought that problem was solved with the use of Ms. Apparently it’s more complicated than that. With the increasing frequency of transgender and androgynous members in our society, it’s not just ones marital status that could be in question. It’s also ones sexual orientation. The use of the letter X has become a common way to circumvent all sorts of societal unknowns.

One of the more common uses that have been popular for ,a while now is LatinX. That’s the gender-neutral alternative to Latina or Latino. But I blame the explosion of the use of X today on Elon Musk for renaming Twitter X. It started with his SpaceX rockets. He even titled his artificial intelligence company xAI and created a special logo for it. Lord only knows what he’ll christen with X in the future.

To be fair, X has been around in many forms for a while now. The X Games, a semi-annual ESPN extreme sports competition, began in 1995 in Rhode Island as the Extreme Games. I don’t know when it was shortened to just X. The Xbox gaming console has been available in the U.S. since 2001.

I’m not sure what drives this X appeal, but it’s all around us. X has always symbolized something unknown and often mysterious. Simply thinking in terms of it having four points, we can group it with other similar symbols. The four-leaf clover is considered lucky, perhaps because it’s so rare (unlike X). When we find one, we usually preserve it in plastic and put it in our wallets.

Old fashioned Dutch-style windmills that were used to mill grain or pump water have four blades, though modern wind turbines usually have three. Railroad crossing signs are always an X. I still remember the scene in the movie Two For the Road with Albert Finney and Audrey Hepburn. They’re hitchhiking and she gets a ride, leaving him behind. Farther up the road, she’s on foot again and has been hiding behind a railroad crossing sign; she’s so thin you can barely see her. When he gets within sight, she pops out, flapping her arms like the crossing sign. It was a great movie.

There are dozens of areas where X marks the spot. Take clothing sizes for instance. We have XL, 1X, 2X, 3X etc. in women’s. It gets even crazier for men, with XXL and XXXL. In mathematics, X is always the horizontal axis. In science, X-rays have countless uses, but Y-rays and Z-rays are virtually unheard of.

In popular culture, we had the X-Files science fiction TV series back in the nineties. Remember Scully and Mulder? There’s yet another remake of that in progress. We still have the X-Men team of mutant superheroes from Marvel Comics. Just the thought of Nightcrawler or Wolverine can send a frisson up ones spine! On the opposite end of the spectrum, in the Greek alphabet, X represents the letter chi. Many devoted Christians use chi to refer to Christ, especially when combined with the Greek rho to make the first letters of His name.

The uses for X keep proliferating. It’s prominent in company and brand names, like Xfinity, introduced in 2010, while that stalwart workhorse Xerox was founded 1906. Tesla has several models, but its Model X is the most popular. If you text a lot, you no doubt enjoy receiving XOXO kisses and hugs from your friends.

All this having been said, I still blame Elon Musk for the ubiquitousness of X in our lives today. Anywhere we go, there it is. With a name like Musk, you’d think he’d overwhelm us with sex appeal. But no, thanks to Elon and his rebranding of Twitter as X, we’re all drowning in X appeal.

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Gardens of Time

 This is a delayed posting of my July column;

April showers bring May Flowers;

Weddings in June bring Bouquet tunes.

But July is when Gardens fully bloom!

 

This year’s Met Gala, The Garden of Time, based on a short story, inspired today’s column. I’m celebrating gardens from mythology to imaginary ones to historical examples to those we can still visit today.  There are many categories of gardens. Often we think of those with myriads of colorful flowers, growing informally around our homes. Public gardens are likely to be formal, with hedges and paths and even topiary, usually found around museums and estates, both public and private.

 

Gardens are where life begins anew each year, where love can be secretly nourished and passions kindled. They can provide places to relax and meditate, places to recharge emotional batteries. We can enjoy them in solitude or with friends and family. You could have a bucket list with nothing but wonderful gardens still extant to visit.

 

Our retrospective begins with the Garden of Eden, the garden of God, from where both Adam and Eve were expelled after Eve gave Adam that apple. In Greek Mythology, The Garden of the Hesperides, aka Hera's Orchard, was the sacred garden of Hera from where the gods got their immortality. Heracles (the Roman Hercules), had to retrieve golden apples from the tree in the center of the garden as part of his twelve labors. Also in Greek mythology, the Elysian Fields are the final resting place of the souls of the heroic and the virtuous. Obviously, none of these gardens can be visited today.

 

Other historical gardens no longer bucket list options are the Hanging Gardens of Babylon, one of the seven wonders of the ancient world. They’ve been described as marvels of agricultural engineering, filled with flowers, fruit, exotic foliage, and impressive waterfalls. Similarly, literary gardens are wish-list only, the Garden of the Finzi Contini, for instance. And you can’t spend midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil. Do we even know where The Secret Garden is?

 

Another summer garden is the Elizabeth Park Rose Garden, in Hartford, CT a walkers' haven, with several gardens along its wildflower trail, a lovely pond and sports and concert facilities It’s best known for its magnificent rose gardens, with 800 varieties of roses.

 

Some gardens celebrated in paintings and literature can still be visited. Monet’s Gardens in Giverny should be on your list. Mercifully, The Garden of Earthly Delights depicted by Hieronymus Bosch was imaginary. You’d be certifiable to want to visit it. On the other hand, somewhere in England and well worth searching for must be that Host of Golden Daffodils that inspired Wordsworth when he wandered lonely as a cloud.

 

By now you should be looking for good examples for your bucket list. I’ll start with one that you’ll want to visit next spring; lt's past it's prime in summer. It's the Keukenhof Tulip Gardens in The Netherlands. Pique your interest by looking at some photos on line. They’re glorious.

 

There are two fabulous botanical gardens to include, one on each side of the pond. The first are the Royal Botanic Gardens at Kew Gardens in Richmond (Southwest London). It’s a UNESCO World Heritage Centre. There are both formal and informal gardens to explore and various houses to visit, especially the Great Pagoda.

 

The second is the New York Botanical Garden, located in Bronx Park. It contains fifty different gardens and plant collections, and even a cascade waterfall. Throughout the year there are exhibitions, immersive botanical experiences, art and music. It’s well worth an extended visit.

 

For those wanting to add some formal gardens to their bucket lists, you can do no better than visiting the Gardens of the Palace of Versailles, a UNESCO World Heritage Centre outside Paris. The gardens of Versailles contain some 400 statues, making them the world’s largest open-air sculpture museum. Go for the palace, but allow plenty of time for the gardens.

 

For a similar experience, travel to Vienna to see the Palace and Gardens of Schönbrunn, an impressive and well-preserved Baroque property. The gardens form an organic extension of the palace, so plan to visit the entire complex. It, too, is a UNESCO World Heritage Centre.

 

A very different option would be the formal Gardens of the Taj Mahal in Agra, India. It’s another UNESCO World Heritage Centre. The focus of the gardens is the white marble mausoleum, built by the emperor Shah Jahan in memory of his favorite wife. Forewarned: depending on when you visit, it can be a challenge to fight the crowds.

 

We’ve barely scratched the surface of gardens worth seeing. The sooner you build your own bucket list, the sooner you can plan trips to visit them. Start looking for comfortable walking shoes now!

 

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Polyamory and Other Polys

This is a delayed posting of my June column.

Lately I’ve been seeing the term “polyamory” in the media quite often. I know that “poly” means many or several. And I know that “amor” means love in Latin and Spanish. So I assumed that polyamory is a strong affection for several people. Hardly anything to merit media coverage unless there’s more to the story. I decided to research the term.

 

It turns out that polyamorous people have romantic relationships with more than one partner at the same time, and all the partners involved agree to this. It’s also defined as consensual nonmonogamy. You might think I’d want to travel down that road in more detail for this column, but you’d be wrong. I did wonder how many people would be needed for a relationship to be polyamorous (vs. just a love triangle). But what really piqued my interest was other uses for the compounded “poly.”

 

The notion of polyamorous relationships did call to mind Pollyanna, whose irrepressible optimism finds good in everything. But I want to explore “poly” with a single “l”. An obvious word to include here is polygamy. It doesn’t seem as sexy as polyamory, and it’s more structured, usually with one husband having multiple wives. Technically one wife could have multiple husbands. Either way the practice of polygamy is now illegal in the U.S.

 

As a lover of language, I quickly thought of polyglot, someone who knows and uses several languages. To be considered more than bilingual or trilingual, a polyglot can usually communicate in at least four languages. This is different from someone who prides herself on speaking polysyllabically. Using a lot of multi-syllable words does not a polyglot make. It just makes someone a long-winded sesquipedalian.

 

The most commonly known poly word is probably polygon. This one-l poly word shouldn’t be confused with the two-l “Polly gone,” meaning your pet parrot has flown the coop. Sorry. I couldn’t resist some silliness. A polygon is a multi-sided geometric figure with a certain number of sides and angles. First the triangle (3 sides), then the quadrilateral (4), and then they morph into the “gon” series: pentagon, hexagon, heptagon, octagon, nonagon, decagon, and so on.

 

A word that sounds like it could be related to polygons is polymath. Its actual meaning has nothing to do with mathematics; it’s someone who knows a lot about many different subjects. Leonardo DaVinci is probably the most famous polymath; Thomas Jefferson is another celebrated one. Elon Musk’s name appears on some lists. Polymaths are usually great solvers of complex problems.

 

Mathematics does have special meaning for polytechnic universities. They specialize in providing hands-on, practical, and applied education in STEM fields. These are increasingly popular and important fields, specifically science, technology, engineering and math. Some schools that are not polytechnics incorporate art into the mix and use the acronym STEAM. Brown University and RISD (Rhode Island School of Design) have had STEAM collaborations.

 

Far less interesting are poly words that come from science, especially the many types of polymers. First of these is polyester, the easy-care fiber for all seasons. Then there are the PVC and PET bottles (polyvinylchloride and polyethylene terephthalate) that we’re encouraged to recycle. We coat our outdoor furniture with polyurethane. I see your eyes glazing over the way the furniture does, so I’ll move on from science.

 

I love the next two poly words because they have creative connections. Polyphonic instruments are capable of producing many sounds simultaneously, like my mother’s baby grand on which I took piano lessons in elementary school. Polyphonic choral pieces are written for many voices (but not mine). Polychromatic artworks use multiple colors vs. monochromatic ones. I majored in art in college and always liked polychromes.

 

One of my favorite “poly” words is polydactyl. We see this most often when describing cats that have extra toes. They’re always so adorable with the cutest little mitten paws! Not so common are polydactyl babies, those born with extra fingers. I don’t know anyone who has a baby with this condition but I’ve seen many polydactyl cats. I’m sure I’ve adopted one or two, though it’s not something I paid a lot of attention to. I think I’ll go count my cats’ toes right now.

 

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